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Hendrick Polanco My deepest condolences May 15, 2014
 

My condolences. It is my hope that these words of the Holy Scriptures, prove to be supportive in this difficult and painful time…..

John 11:32-45

32 And so Mary, when she arrived where Jesus was and caught sight of him, fell at his feet, saying to him: “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died.” 33 Jesus, therefore, when he saw her weeping and the Jews that came with her weeping, groaned in the spirit and became troubled; 34 and he said: “Where have YOU laid him?” They said to him: “Lord, come and see.” 35 Jesus gave way to tears. 36 Therefore the Jews began to say: “See, what affection he used to have for him!” 37 But some of them said: “Was not this [man] that opened the eyes of the blind man able to prevent this one from dying?”

38 Hence Jesus, after groaning again within himself, came to the memorial tomb. It was, in fact, a cave, and a stone was lying against it.39 Jesus said: “TAKE the stone away.” Martha, the sister of the deceased, said to him: “Lord, by now he must smell, for it is four days.”40 Jesus said to her: “Did I not tell you that if you would believe you would see the glory of God?” 41 Therefore they took the stone away. Now Jesus raised his eyes heavenward and said: “Father, I thank you that you have heard me. 42 True, I knew that you always hear me; but on account of the crowd standing around I spoke, in order that they might believe that you sent me forth.” 43 And when he had said these things, he cried out with a loud voice: “Laz´a·rus, come on out!” 44The [man] that had been dead came out with his feet and hands bound with wrappings, and his countenance was bound about with a cloth. Jesus said to them: “Loose him and let him go.”

45 Therefore many of the Jews that had come to Mary and that beheld what he did put faith in him;

Please go to the following link for more information regarding the Hope expressed in this passage

http://www.jw.org

Camille Pabon McCAnn True Friend April 3, 2011
 
I met Jim in high school and we became good friends. He even made me a metal ash tray in his metal class. Always giving. He always thought his name was so bland that he insisted we call him Jim Graves Esquire or just Esquire. The last time I saw him was at my tiny wedding on a school day. I have tought of Esquire many times over the years and have recently found out he had passed away. A true loss of a great person. I am sure he is in a better place and we will all see each other again.
Jennie Ripoli Friend of Jamie July 31, 2008
 
I am deeply saddened to hear about your loss, but the legacy he left behind will be impossible to forget. I still remember the first time Jamie shared stories about Mr. Graves during a late night conversation back in the Chi Omega house. She was a daddy's girl, beaming with a modest sense of pride, just as direct about his battle with cancer as it seems her father was. I hope your hearts are flooded good memories, I wish the best for you and your family. You have and will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.
With love,
Jennie
Deb Williamson Sharing in your Loss July 25, 2008
 
You are in my prayers. I truly know how you feel because I have walked in your shoes. Jim was a wonderful guy! It didn't take me long to figure that out; the day we met at Panera's. I just wish Lonnie could have had as much of an outlook at fighting as Jim had. I am so sorry I didn't hear about Jim's passing sooner. I would have come to the service, Now that Lonnie and Jim have reconnected in Heaven maybe we can reconnect on Earth to carry on their Legacy. Please call me if there is anything I can do... maybe just to be with someone who knows the pain would be comforting, God is with us all at this time. May he give strength and comfort in the days ahead. In Christ's Unfailing Love, Deb Williamson,Chillicothe,IL
Pat Hartzell Guardian Angel July 21, 2008
 
Patti and family - Please accept my deepest sympathy. Even though our contact has been minimal the past several years, your tribute to Jim tells me he was the same great guy I knew him to be. If there is anything I can do to ease your pain during this time, please let me know. I am sure you know that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over all of you.
Chad & Cindy Baker Saddened July 21, 2008
 
Patti, Jamie and Ryan,
We are saddened to learn of Jim's passing. May the Lord comfort and keep you in his loving hands. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Julie "Señora" Saathoff Jamie's Spanish Teacher July 21, 2008
 

To the Graves family -
My prayers are with you all in this sad time in your lives. I did not know Jim very well, but I was Jamie's Spanish teacher at PND. Jamie, I am so sorry for the loss of your father. Your Dad was truly a man to be admired and I know he will be missed. My thoughts are with you.

 

Julie "Señora" Saathoff

Jeff & Kim Borsberry Awesome Guy July 21, 2008
 
What an awesome guy. My wife and I worked with Jim at St. Vincent de Paul for the Share program. He was so awesome to work with...so very positive and we will miss him dearly.
DIANE ZOOK Now at Peace July 21, 2008
 
BILLYE & FAMILY,

SO SORRY ABOUT YOUR BROTHER. AS WE ALL KNOW, IT IS VERY DIFFICULT TO LOOSE A FAMILY MEMBER. AFTER HIS LONG BATTLE, WE HAVE TO BELIEVE THAT HE IS NOW AT PEACE. YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ARE IN MY THOUGHTS.

DIANE ZOOK
Lisa Boaz Family friend July 19, 2008
 

Patti, Jamie & Ryan,

I'm so sorry to hear about Jim - I wish I could be home to see you but know that I'm thinking of you.  I have so many great memories of your family growing up.  My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Susan Graham Jones Friend July 19, 2008
 

Patti, I was so sad to hear of Jims' passing. I had never met him, but it sounds like he was very special. My thoughts and prayers are with you now and always.

 

Love

 

Susan

Joel Sleeth Sadness at His Passing July 18, 2008
 
Jim was a good friend to all he met and a good person. Words can't express my sadness at his passing and I will always remember the good times we had.
Gwen Wilson Friend of Patti July 18, 2008
 
Patti, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your children. Jim was a great guy and a blessing to all who came into contact with him. May God wrap his arms around you and your family during this difficult time. Since I have been where you are now if you ever need to talk please give me a call my number is in the phone book.  
Debbie Graham Glazeski friend of Patti's July 17, 2008
 

Dear Patti,  I'm so sorry to hear about your Jim's death.  Please know you and your children and all of Jim's family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Diane Railey Dr. Schwab July 17, 2008
 

Pattie,
You probably won't remeber me, but I worked for Dr. Schwab's office. We had many long talks and you were always my favorite patient. I just wanted to let you know my prayers are with you and your family.

Diane Railey

Vicki Cooley Friend of Patti July 17, 2008
 

My heart goes out to Patti, Ryan, Jamie, Mrs. graves and Jim's sisters! I thank you for allowing me to share in Jim's last few weeks. We shared stories, memories and a few smiles. Jim is a true friend and he has taught me much about life and living. He has been an inspiration to so many, touching lives of people all over the United States. The steady stream of friends visiting Jim over the last weeks of his life is a true testimony to the man he was. May he be at peace and may the healing begin for his family and friends.

 

With Love...Vicki Cooley

Michele & Brian Knott Inspiration July 17, 2008
 

I have never met Jim or your family, but the Journal Star Tribute written about him and his life is a true inspiration. How wonderful to have left such a legacy to those who knew and loved him.
May GOD bless your family in this time of need. Your family is in our prayers.


Michele & Brian Knott

Elaine Atchley Patty & Family July 17, 2008
 
Patty & Family,

My heart and thoughts are with all of you. I'd never met Jim, but Patty your writing of him in the PJS is such a heartfelt tribute to a man who was sensitive, caring and very, very giving. How blessed your lives have been.

I'll keep you in my prayers.

Elaine Atchley
The Burk Family Friends July 16, 2008
 
Patti, Jamie, and Ryan- Our thoughts and prayers are with you.  It is evident that Jim will live on in Jamie and Ryan.  May God bless you and help you find peace.
Helen Veeder Long time friend July 16, 2008
 
Patti, Jamie and Ryan,
    Jim was a real character and will be missed.  I cannot imagine how you feel but know that you were in my thoughts and prayers ever since THAT phone call.  I am glad I got to visit with you  at the CCHL Christmas party last year.  God bless you all.
Carol Rhodes Neighbor July 16, 2008
 
My thoughts and prayers are with Jim's family. Jim was a wonderful man who loved his family and everyone he met. He was extremely dedicated to helping others. He will be greatly missed by everyone who knew him. He was an asset to our neighborhood and the community. We had a great time being on the WKRRA board together.
Kristy and Stan Freeman A Wonderful Man July 16, 2008
 
Jim was a wonderful man - He lived a good life, and was always there for those he loved--his family, friends, and even "strangers," who didn't seem to stay that way for long. His memory will live on in those he touched. Our deepest sympathy goes out to Patti, Jamie, Ryan, Aunt Gloria, Nancy, Kathy, Mary, Billye, their spouses, significant others, and children. May you find comfort in the love of your family and friends, and may peace find its way to all of you soon.
Jamie Dixon Thoughts & Prayers July 16, 2008
 
My thoughts and prayers are with the Graves Family! Jim will be missed by everyone! I remember seeing him at St. Vincent's coaching and being at all the sporting events!! He will be greatly missed in the community! Hopefully, from his donation of his body, the doctors will be able to help others with Cancer, just like he did. He was greatly admired by all.......God Bless
Scott and Kathy Meister A Great Guy July 16, 2008
 

Pattie, Jamie, Ryan -

 

So sorry to see the passing of your husband and father. What a great guy. He touched the lives of our whole family and will be remembered as a person we were blessed to have in our lives. May our prayers console all of you!

 

Sincerely,

The Scott Meister Family

Connie Murphy Chemo Connie July 16, 2008
 
Jim was the ultimate "cancer fighter", he taught me how to tackle cancer and chemo, thank you for that.  I hope you all can feel the love around you, sending love and hugs xxoo.  We will keep fighting the fight for Jim.
The Bare Family Friend of Jamie July 16, 2008
 
Jamie- I am so sorry to hear about your dad.  He was an amazing, funny man.  He will be greatly missed.  We are praying for you and your family.
Julie Schifeling Friend of Jamie July 16, 2008
 

Jamie, my deepesty sympathy on the loss of your dad.  Although I never met your dad, after hearing so many wonderful things about him in Democratic circles, and having the pleasure of meeting you when you took my class at BU, I can tell your father most definitely lives on through you.  May the abundance of memories you have of your Dad comfort you through this very sad time.  You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Rob Boaz Family Friend July 16, 2008
 

I am really sorry to hear about Jim's passing.  I have great memories of growing up with him and you guys.  My thoughts and prayers are with you. 

Linda Hughes Friend/Coworker of Patti's July 16, 2008
 

Dear Patti and Graves' family:

I can't imagine the tremendous feeling of loss you are all going through right now....to lose a husband and father and son at such a very young age.  Even though he has been ill for sometime, I'm sure there's still nothing that makes it any easier once reality has set in.  It sounds like Jim was involved in so many wonderful things in his life and helped many others through their trials as well.  Please know that I am saying my prayers for you and, with the Grace of God, you will find peace in your hearts.

Donna and Tim O'Brien friends July 16, 2008
 
Patti and family, we are so sorry to hear of Jim's passing.  All of you are in our prayers.  We enjoyed loking at all the great pictures of Jim, it is a real testimony to him and how wonderful he was.
Maureen Cullinan Friend of Jamie July 16, 2008
 
I am so sorry to hear about your dad, Jamie.  I remember him at all our track meets.  My family (especially my dad) are thinking of and praying for you and your family right now. 
Mary (Flynn) Wilson Classmate July 16, 2008
 
I'm so sorry to hear about Jim. I remember him from high school. He always had a smile. I remember visiting with Jim at our 20 year class reunion. He was so proud of his family. My thoughts and prayers our with Patti and his family. Thank you for the picture gallery it was so nice.
Paul & Martha Underwood Friends July 16, 2008
 
Patti, so sorry to hear of Jims passing, Just wanted to send our condolences. You and your family are in our prayers.
Bekka Fehr Patti's Friend July 16, 2008
 
My heart goes out to you and your family.  I’m sad that I never had the privilege of meeting Jim.  I have heard a lot of wonderful things about him. You and your friends and family are in my thoughts and prayers. I lost both my parents to cancer and I know first hand the battles that cancer patients face. I pray you find peace in God and knowing that Jim's fight with that terrible disease is over.
Mary Jo McClung Patti's Co-Worker/Friend July 16, 2008
 
Patti, Ryan, Jamie, and Family: I'm so sorry to hear of Jim's passing. I know how hard it is to lose someone you love so much. I remember your stories of how Jim spoke with, made jokes, and comforted others at the clinics. What a trooper! Jim did fight a long fight and just remember he is at Peace now. Although I only got to meet Jim a couple of times, I knew he was a great person. You always made this known to everyone with your wonderful stories. My Prayers are with you and your family.
Sue Graves sister July 16, 2008
 
Jim was the best  big brother a little sister could have. He was always there to help me , whether it was with work or kids or financial. He has helped so many in his short lifetime. He will be missed very much by me and many others. Thank you to all of our friends and family for their support and prayers.
Vicki Cooley Friend of Patti and Jim July 15, 2008
 
My heart goes out to Patti, Ryan, Jamie, Mrs. graves and Jim's sisters!  I thank you for allowing me to share in Jim's last few weeks.  We shared stories, memories and a few smiles.  Jim is a true friend and he has taught me much about life and living.  He has been an inspiration to so many, touching lives of people all over the United States.  The steady stream of friends visiting Jim over the last weeks of his life is a true testimony to the man he was. May he be at peace and may the healing begin for his family and friends.  With Love...Vicki
Barb Thomas family friend July 15, 2008
 
You are in my thoughts and prayers.  I have so many special memories of your family from the years that I was privileged to watch Jamie and Ryan.  Jim was a wonderful father and he and Patti have raised two outstanding young adults.  Mazie and Mr. Thomas are keeping you in their thoughts and prayers too.  We love you.
Rhonda McCauley Patti's friend July 15, 2008
 
I'm so sorry to hear of Jim's passing.  He fought long and hard to stay with you.  Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.  God's peace be with you.
Allison Hanson friend of Mary Ann Graves July 15, 2008
 
I am so sorry to hear of Jim's passing. What a wonderful tribute to read about your brother! I knew a few of the wonderful things he did, but there were so many that I hadn't. What a blessing to have had him for your brother. My thoughts are with you and all of your family.
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